I found this short essay about forgiveness and I will like to share a portion of it with you.
Forgiveness is not an event. It’s a process, a continuum, a destination. Forgiveness does not happen all at once. The resentment and anger may come seeping back into your soul. But don’t give up. Keep asking God to help you. Keep confessing your own sins, and in the knowledge that God forgives you, you will increasingly find the strength to forgive others. Forgiveness doesn’t happen overnight. But if does happen.
Forgiving is not an easy task, but its not an impossible one either. Continue to seek God’s strength to overcome whatever hurt someone may have caused you, and you will see you will start forgiving without realizing its happening.